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Dinners with our friends often involve some interesting discussion around sex. When I first published my round-up of the best female-friendly porn sites, the idea was sparked by a conversation we had with our friend, "Elvis" (called such because of his Elvis-styled hair). Elvis had asked me why girls like guy-on-guy porn so much to which I was confused. Guy-on-guy porn? Um, not for me, thanks. But it turns out that some research says that guy-on-guy porn is popular with the gals.

While I'm not one of these stats, I have watched my fair share of porn over the years (some good, some very, very bad. Ask me about my incident with some German stuff one day). There's loads of issues surrounding porn but my view is that if it's something you like to watch and it turns you on, and of course the porn itself is safe, sane and consensual, then that's fine. It's when it becomes addictive or when it's used for educational purposes that the problems balloon.

A growing awareness of the issues of mainstream porn have spurned a whole gamut of female-friendly production companies producing some pretty hot porn which reflect a more true representation of good sex, sex in which women actually look like they're enjoying themselves. 

At the end of the day, porn is an incredibly personal thing. You need to explore and find what turns you on. Then embrace it. If mainstream stuff makes you want to masturbate with fervour then sign up to your fave site or if you prefer a subtle, more romantic erotic film then opt for that. If porn or erotica doesn't do it for you then move on and explore something else. Remember there is no "should", no "right or wrong", only what is right for you.

 
 


OK so anyone that has followed HOT will know that Barcelona-based erotic film-maker Erika Lust is top of the list for best directors, she's probably also the most well-known. One of her websites, XConfessions, takes user-submitted “confessions” and turns them into artful, at times funny, and always cinematically-rich erotic films.

Here is an example of one of the anonymous user confessions which Erika then made into a short film entitled "Pouring Pleasure":

Pouring Pleasure

I love the rain. It is a welcome relief, it is soothing and most importantly cleansing. Rain! The very syllable runs through my being jolting me alive and melting the prudish existence that is my daily life. Every romantic association it brings: lush fields, laughing green trees, open lakes, rivers and seas…not where I live though. Every morning I go up to the terrace of my rickety old house to find the sun rise over a concrete jungle. Buildings, telephone towers, power-lines and the far off sounds of a train. Then comes the rainy season. People in the streets dancing in relief, crows drenched on a cloths-line, the streets soon waterlogged, the world around is suddenly alive! In a couple of hours the euphoria will die down and the rumbling thunder will scare people indoors. It is then that I will climb the tall red stairs to the terrace. There is a thin film of water below my feet and I take off my dress and lay down, my bare back and bottom touching the still warm water and the uneven ground. Bullets of rain fall on my face, my neck, my arms, the arches of my feet, my nipples, my body and I am instantly aroused by the smarting dull pain. I feel like someone is on me (man, woman who cares?) kissing, nipping, nibbling every inch of my nakedness. The rain pounds and pours harder and harder as I feel incapacitated by the rising pleasure in me. The thunder beats and shudders and I feel incapacitated by its pressure. My eyes, nose, ears all throb simultaneously as I come with such fury that I feel utterly spent. The rain still falls relentlessly. After a while I get up and put on my dress. I circle the terrace kicking the waterlogged zones, frolicking and absolutely sated.

Of her confession-fueled films Erika says:

"We want to keep surprising you, and we never use the same story or setting twice. With every film, we push the boundaries of fetish, lust, desire and intimacy. We explore the ever evolving, fluctuating, growing eroticism innate in every one of us."

There are 3 subscriptions on offer: $19.95 (monthly recurring), $34.95 (1 month only) or $99.95 (6 months). This gives you access to 100+ movies (two new films are added each month), you can have a go at creating your own confessions plus there's a heap of other exclusives. 

 
 


Erika Lust's main project, Lust Cinema, curates a selection of work by other directors who produce alternatives to mainstream porn. There’s everything from vintage to modern, tutorials to art, romance to kink. It's incredibly hot. 

In curation, Erika looks for films "where the feminine viewpoint is vital, the aesthetic is a pleasure to all of the senses, and eroticism and innovation are celebrated."

Lust Cinema showcases more than 60 directors producing titles such as Milk, Multiorgasmic Brunch, Can Vampires smell my period?, Try my boyfriend and Car sex generation.

 

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Multiorgasmic Brunch

Two women, several toys, multiple orgasms.

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Milk

Julia Roca and Vic Leon find themselves in a beautiful, luxury apartment for this lustful, intense short.

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Try my Boyfriend

"Her boyfriend was so good at eating her that she just couldn’t keep it to herself. It wasn’t fair!

Unsurprisingly Lust Cinema has a similar subscription model to XConfessions : $34.95 (1 month), $69.95 (3 months) or $99.95 (6 months). If you're not sure whether to commit, sign up to the newsletter where you'll get to watch one short erotic film for free. 

 
 
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Tumblr is a little cronut of inspiration. Get through the layers of security to the saucy centre and you can find some very tasteful erotic imagery. (Tumblr doesn’t allow video but those dancing stills called GIFS are everywhere and are surprisingly arousing). You can literally spend hours scouring Tumblr and the great thing is, there really is something for everyone on there. It's likely "safe mode" will be on when you look up these so make sure you're logged into Tumblr and have "safe mode" turned off.

Check out: (Sex) Gifs for Girls, Petite Coquiine, Cunnilingyes, Porn 4 LadiesLove Porn for Women and Dicks for Girls

 

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Love Porn for Women

 

We talk quite a lot about the amazing effect that a restriction on the senses has on the ability to heighten your sexual awareness. Audio-only porn is another avenue for exploration. Interestingly, many of the audio blogs out there are created by women and have a high number of female-submitted moans and groans, proving what we have known for quite some time, that women love to masturbate and have sex just as much as the dudes. Audio porn is not for everyone and sometimes you've got to sift through the Pamela Anderson renditions but it can be a real turn-on. Check out Audible Porn and  Sounds of Pleasure.

 
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Audio porn

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Sounds of pleasure

 
 
 

"We call ourselves the Dudettes, an all-female team of film students and photographers, with the aim of exhibiting female sexuality and eroticism in a natural and unique way. For the first time in front of a camera young German girls, most of them students, talk about themselves and what turns them on. Usually nervous at first, they quickly lose their inhibitions as we film them. Our girls are not indistinguishable silicon Barbie Dolls or primped up blond porno stars. Here you'll find girls that you would never expect to see on camera this way. Everything is natural and real."

Videos are updated four times a week and there's 8 years of archives. Membership also buys you access to interviews, girl-on-girl videos, girl-on-boy videos and intimate masturbation videos all made by girls.

Ersties offers the following subscriptions: 1 month ($35), 3 months ($45), 6 months ($84) or 1 year ($132).

 
 
 

Berlin-based Lucie Blush's website Lucie Makes Porn has a similar set-up to Erika's Lust Cinema. While she hasn't been in the game for nearly as long, her films are worth a look. She has a small stable of other directors who contribute erotic films to her site.

 

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Je m-exctie

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Captive

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Two of us

 

 

Hysterical Literature

involves a woman sitting at a desk reading a passage from a novel, all the while an assistant is underneath the table and using a vibrator to bring the reader to climax.

Make love not porn

for the people who believe that the sex we have in our everyday life is the hottest sex there is.

Beautiful agony

is dedicated to the beauty of human orgasm. It began 12 years ago as an experiment to test a hypothesis that eroticism in human imagery rests not in naked flesh and sexual illustration, but engagement with the face.

Drone boning

imagery of couples boning from above

Joybear Pictures

Very British. Very naughty.

 
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 Anna Richards is another female-friendly porn producer who started off with a Tumblr blog FrolicMePlease and then entered into production with her website Frolic Me. The films, while lacking in Lust's edge, are clean, HD and definitely worth a look.

Frolic Me offers a range of subscriptions: 5 day trial ($9.50), single month ($42.90), monthly ($21.95) and yearly (currently 50% off at $74.95).

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Outdoor sex

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In control

 






 
 

{7.} READERS' SUBMISSIONS

I recently asked my gorgeous followers to suggest some of their favourite porn sites. The following sites were suggested. If you have another favourite that we've missed, please let us know 

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Studio darkness

  • X Art shoots high quality, paid, HD films with some great story lines. Check out Sylvie & Mr X
  • Award-winning Spanish company, Thagson, also produces some decent mainstream stuff. Girls Sex Tricks is one of their most popular productions and Five Hot Stories For Her produced by Thagson and written and directed by Erika Lust, offers five modern, urban, spicy and erotic stories, featuring natural and realistic sex. 
  • X-art
  • Bright Desire
  • Lady Cheeky
  • Literotica


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