TRASH THE -VE SELF-TALK
MY SELF-TALK SEX DIARY
So I consider myself to be quite confident when it comes to sex. I'm happy to ask for whatever I want, I dress up, I love to play the dominatrix just as much as I love to play the servant. I have very open communication with my partner and I generally feel good about my sex life.But. Here I was thinking I was owning it, totally owning it.
And then I decided to take note of all the negative self-talk that filtered through my mind during sex because surely I don't have that many, right?! So wrong. So very wrong. There aren't enough crying emoji faces to really convey just how wrong I was!
(Now I didn't stop my play time every 30 seconds to write stuff down, instead this is a summary of a few sex sessions and my note taking in the moments after climax.)
Warming up: Did I brush my teeth? Does my breath smell? When my bush is prickly from regrowth does it feel like the tiny needles that i'm feeling right now from my man's beard?