Suffice to say, my highly anticipated routine of porn-girl-cowgirl didn’t make an appearance the first time I had sex. The sex was weird, awkward, not that enjoyable. We were two 17-year-olds fumbling about in the dark. We had no idea what we were doing. It turned out that pretend sex with an inanimate object was quite different from a moving, thrusting, breathing being.Read More
Squirting is quite the unknown phenomenon so we asked one gal to share her squirting adventures. Oh and let’s just set the record straight, squirting ain’t pee, folks!Read More
"When I enrolled myself in Non-Monogamy 101, I had no idea what I was getting myself into. Having had long-term boyfriends for my entire adult life, I found myself in my mid-twenties, having been distinctly single for several years, and having recently escaped a demanding corporate career that had completely devoured my life and sense of self. This new space I was suddenly inhabiting - asking myself what I liked, what I wanted, and actually listening to my own response - brought with it a curious and unexpected realisation. I wanted to date women.”Read More
I sometimes describe myself as "the crazy anthropologist, charting out the uncharted world of polyamorous relationships. And then reporting back to the Imperial capital, what the landscape is like and the exotic creatures found therein."
Harry is in a long-term relationship with Anna who is married with a child. We talked to him about his foray into polyamory and what it’s like being in love with a married woman.Read More
"We have each others back, and the fact that he may put someone else on hers doesn’t impact that, it only enriches it and allows us to focus on the amazing level of security, trust, and openness we have."
Read about what happened when Sarah opened up her marriage.
Some of us gals may get turned on by watching some erotica or exchanging a glance or a touch with our lover, for submissive Isa, it's domestic chores that make her near lose her mind. Isa plays the role of a "service" submissive - doing a dish or sweeping a floor for her Dom, is one of her biggest turn-ons.Read More
In Part Two of our Virginity Series, we look at what it means to be a virgin for women living in different parts of the world.Read More
Purity, innocence, respect. The concept of virginity is loaded with virtue. Sure the Bible harped on about it and in some cultures the price of virginity is so high it can lead to death. In this 4 part series, we look at what virginity has been, what it is and why in a time when women's rights are consistently in the foreground are we still treating virginity as a highly prized commodity?Read More
Mindful intimacy meets Dr SeussRead More
Our curation of the best porn of 2017 (Warning: get yourself a fan and don't open this at work)Read More
One girl's story from ignorance to blissRead More
Always been intrigued by bondage? We've come up with a few fun ideas to introduce you to the world of being tied up.Read More
In the first of the BAD* Sex tête-à-tête series, "Mr C" and I talk about our ideas and feelings around the possibility of having a threesome.Read More
I sometimes use sex as a bargaining tool in my relationship. It’s actually a form of bribery that I’ve gotten quite good at.Read More
And no, this isn't Cosmo, Fifty Shades didn't make the cut.Read More
Give a shit about your sexual satisfaction by first defining what that means to you.Read More
How much does size really matter?Read More
The sex rut is real. And normal. And hopefully fleeting. Want to know how to show it the door? Read on, my friend.Read More
A rant about IKEA. Inspired by a favourite fem-friendly erotic film.Read More
Contributor Jasmine Prasad recently sat down with musician Hayley Beth to chat about gender, feminism and kicking ass in the local music sceneRead More