Suffice to say, my highly anticipated routine of porn-girl-cowgirl didn’t make an appearance the first time I had sex. The sex was weird, awkward, not that enjoyable. We were two 17-year-olds fumbling about in the dark. We had no idea what we were doing. It turned out that pretend sex with an inanimate object was quite different from a moving, thrusting, breathing being.Read More
I grew up in an environment where sexual pleasure was never a hot topic of discussion. We didn’t delve into it over tacos at the dinner table and at school, sex education focused on condoms on bananas, sketches of fallopian tubes and genitals riddled with STI’s. Nobody sat me down and said “Jasmin, sex isn’t just about making babies and protecting yourself from syphilis; it’s also about pleasure and your pleasure is important. Masturbation is important, exploration is important, fantasies are important. It’s all important, healthy and natural.”Read More
diary of a sick girl
written by Heather
I’ve had trouble sleeping, anxiety and depression since my late teens. When I was 17 or 18 and studying art at university, I was diagnosed with depression by a GP who prescribed antidepressants and sleep meds, and strongly advised me not to smoke weed because my brain had a chemical imbalance.Read More
Our ‘Analicious :: derriere delights’ event is fast approaching! PERTH GALS, have you secured your spot yet? If not, hit the button below to RSVP!Read More
Here’s a gallery of our all-time favourite kinky designers. Think sexy latex skirts, stunning corsetry, minimalist leather accessories and jaw-dropping bondage dresses. This is the creme-de-la-creme of kinky fashion.
Our next HOT meet is all about anal sex, the deliciousness of derriere delights. Let's talk about anal sex and anal rimming and strap-ons and pegging. Let's ask and answer some of those questions.Read More
Dom OTKDaddy, co-host of our two most recent BDSM HOT meets shares with us his top tips for starting your kinky journey.Read More
This basics guide is for the novice and will be cut into parts. This first part is to simply lay out the lingo and the key principles of Safe, Sane, Consensual play. In the parts to follow, we’ll delve into the practical. How to set up a scene, how to begin your journey with role play, spanking, whipping, bondage and temperature play. We’ll also give you a thorough list and negotiation form so you can consider your desires in depth.Read More
OTKDaddy began his journey into kink after experiencing a turbulent relationship which crystalised his desire to know more about himself. While living in Los Angeles, he sought out the advice and mentorship of the local Dungeon Master at the North Hollywood dungeon Lair De Sade, and his life turned around. After spending 7 years in LA playing and studying with mentors such as Sir Nik Satanas and Sick Uncle Freddy, he returned to Australia to help others find their true path through kink.Read More
Squirting is quite the unknown phenomenon so we asked one gal to share her squirting adventures. Oh and let’s just set the record straight, squirting ain’t pee, folks!Read More
"When I enrolled myself in Non-Monogamy 101, I had no idea what I was getting myself into. Having had long-term boyfriends for my entire adult life, I found myself in my mid-twenties, having been distinctly single for several years, and having recently escaped a demanding corporate career that had completely devoured my life and sense of self. This new space I was suddenly inhabiting - asking myself what I liked, what I wanted, and actually listening to my own response - brought with it a curious and unexpected realisation. I wanted to date women.”Read More
I sometimes describe myself as "the crazy anthropologist, charting out the uncharted world of polyamorous relationships. And then reporting back to the Imperial capital, what the landscape is like and the exotic creatures found therein."
Harry is in a long-term relationship with Anna who is married with a child. We talked to him about his foray into polyamory and what it’s like being in love with a married woman.Read More
"We have each others back, and the fact that he may put someone else on hers doesn’t impact that, it only enriches it and allows us to focus on the amazing level of security, trust, and openness we have."
Read about what happened when Sarah opened up her marriage.
The ability to discuss your relationship issues will always be the cornerstone of a good, healthy relationship but this is why you should never involve your family in your relationship dramas.Read More
Some of us gals may get turned on by watching some erotica or exchanging a glance or a touch with our lover, for submissive Isa, it's domestic chores that make her near lose her mind. Isa plays the role of a "service" submissive - doing a dish or sweeping a floor for her Dom, is one of her biggest turn-ons.Read More
"It was there that I noticed them – a stack of Playboys piled on top of each other with the plastic ripped open and the top of the front cover ripped off. It felt like they were calling out to me, 'Jasmin, come play!'" iN honour of the wonderful physical act of self-love, I've shared my own masturbation story.Read More
Do you love yourself? I mean really love yourself? Do you get up in the morning, do a twirl like that chick out of The Sound of Music, give yourself a hug, look lovingly in the mirror at the pimple rising on your cheek and see cartoon hearts ballooning all around?No? Good. We're in this together.Read More
Four months ago after a love/hate relationship, I finally broke up with Wax (waxing my pussy, that is). I have to admit, I'd already met someone else, his name was SHR. He wooed me away from Wax like only the best can. He was charming and smooth and promised to be kind. He promised, in fact, to change my life. But was he for real or a lying bastard?Read More
Our first times can be messy, good, embarrassing, fun, painful, frustrating, even sad. Welcome to the Virgin Files, where women share their true accounts of their first sexual encounters.Read More
In Part Two of our Virginity Series, we look at what it means to be a virgin for women living in different parts of the world.Read More