yes / no / maybe Play Menu
yes / no / maybe Play Menu
Starters
For this week’s play menu, I’ve reworked our yes/no/maybe list for you all. This updated version is only available for my lovely paid subscribers, and I’ll release more detailed and niche yes/no/maybe lists for you in the future. But consider this one your basic go-to ynm play menu.
If you’re not familiar with ynm lists, they act to stir the senses and get you thinking about all the sensual and erotic experiences you may like to try.
Humans are creatures of habit. We are used to repeating activities we like, and we can sometimes find it tricky to break away and try other things. This play menu will help get you thinking about the types of activities you may want to introduce into your sexual repertoire. It will also help you outline your boundaries.
Many people have trouble discussing what they want, what they’re into and what they’re not into. Many also aren’t quite sure, so you can use this menu to help open the conversation with your partner/s.
Of course, our desires can change over time so you can revisit this play menu whenever you like.
It’s very easy to use. Simply print it out, and pop each activity listed into one of the three columns.
If you’re totally up for it then pop it into yes. Maybe means you’re not sure but you’re willing to consider it, and no means you don’t want to do it.
You may find that you pop an activity into the yes column, but it doesn’t mean that you’ll always be up for it, and similarly, something in your no column may find its way into one of the other columns. That’s why it’s great to revisit this menu, and it will be here for you whenever you need it.
The key is to be open and honest with yourself about what you want. You should never feel pressured to put an activity into a yes column if you don’t want to do it.
You’ll also see there is a fourth column, and this is the giving/receiving column. You may be happy to be the giver but not the receiver for a particular activity, and this is where you can be clear about that.
Main Meal
You’ll find the yes / no / maybe play menu by clicking on the button below. And as always, if you have any questions about this Play Menu, or anything else, hit me up in our AMA form.
Have fun!